The real estate agent, after a long discussion of our needs and wants, begins to show us property. My wife and I are getting a tour of a cabin in beautiful northern Minnesota. It's on a smallish lake, with loons and birch trees and some hills, with vintage, quaint cabins from the 1940's.
Sure, the property is fun to see. But what strikes me is the non-assumptive language of the salesperson.
Non-assumptive language might not be appropriate early in a sales conversation, and in certain sales conversations that are more exploratory in nature. But, especially after a salesperson has done a good job of investigating needs and desires, a presentation of a product or service begs for assumptive language.
Assumptive language:
1. Tells your prospect you believe in your product;
2. Tells your prospect you believe in your product for your prospect;
3. Tells your prospect it's okay to take ownership of the product, at least during the sales conversation;
4. Helps move the sales conversation to closure, especially if the prospect is on the fence.
Here are some excerpts from the mouth of the real estate agent, along with my suggestions for assumptive language:
AGENT: "And here is the boat house, where you could have guests stay, at least in the summer."
BETTER: "And here is your boat house, where your nieces and nephew will sleep when they visit during the temperate months in the late spring, summer, and early fall." [The agent found out that one of the main visitors to the cabin will be our nieces and nephew).
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AGENT: "The size of the lot would give you plenty of room to add a second garage in the future to store your toys."
BETTER: "The size of the lot will give you plenty of room..."
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AGENT: "The property owner's association would be one of the best in the area."
BETTER: "The property owner's association is one of the best in the area."
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AGENT: "If you spend much time in the winter..."
BETTER: "When you spend time here in the winter..."
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AGENT: "If the dock is too short, you can make it longer."
BETTER: "If your dock is too short, you simply make it longer."
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AGENT: "The cabin's fourth bedroom is upstairs..."
BETTER: "Your fourth bedroom is upstairs..."
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AGENT: "The current owners could close before Memorial Day so you could take ownership by the summer."
BETTER: "The current owners will close before Memorial Day so you will have the entire summer to enjoy your new lake."
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Assumptive language isn't going to make an uninterested party buy something they don't want to buy. But it will give permission to your prospect to mentally take ownership of the product during your sales conversation. And sometimes, that can supply just the tiny bit of buying momentum that can make a sale happen.
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Many people are afraid to be so assumptive and there is a cost to soft selling.
I recall reading many years ago of an agent who would take a picture of people in front of the homes they looked at and then would send them to them with a note that said, "you and your new home."
This gives people a visual.
Great example of an assumptive action.
Great examples of assumptive language.
Posted by: twitter.com/heykeenan | 24 November 2009 at 10:05 AM